Reminder: You Are Not Responsible for Anyone's Sexual Attraction Towards You.

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In this video I discuss a couple of experiences where I have felt expected to be sexual with someone because of their sexual attraction towards me. This is something that a number of women and men have experienced throughout their lifetime and it can feel unsafe, hurtful and abusive. I discuss why using language designed to coerce someone into sexual contact is unhealthy and what to do if you are struggling with impulse control.

This video is more personal than my regular videos, however, I feel that I am now at a place where I have processed my experiences enough to share them, and provide information to others that may highlight if they are being made to feel responsible for someone else's sexual attraction, so that they can reach out to someone they trust and move away from controlling relationships towards healthier relationships where their boundaries are recognised and honoured.

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